About The Girl

Hello! My name is Katie Jayne “K.J.” Kingsley. I’m a writer by day, Professional Dominatrix by night. Sometimes, it’s the other way around.

I started my career as an escort to support a drug addiction and I have hit every rung on the ho ladder since. I’ve been clean for 2.5 years and discovered my two passions in life: writing and Femdom.

When I first started writing this blog, it was meant as a place to share my experiences, both good and terrible. It quickly evolved into a platform for those who are involved in, new to, or thinking of entering the realm of sex work. I aim to educate, enlighten, engage, & entertain by candidly writing about my own past personal experiencesimportant issues, such as stigma & advocating for sex worker rights, practical advice, and informational pieces in the realm of BDSM, kink, and fetish.

I encourage you to engage with me through the comments. Tell me what you’d like to see more or less of, tell me I’m wrong and why, let me know if you agree with me. Let’s have some healthy debate!

It is with heartfelt sincerity that I say I hope you are able to gain something from this blog.

If you are new to or thinking of getting into sex work (escort, dominatrix, stripper, cam model, porn actress, phone sex, either real life or online), I am available for one-on-one consulting via email or Skype. Contact me for information (on a donation only basis).

If you would like me to write for you, I am definitely interested in hearing from you.

If you are interested in interviewing or featuring me, want to be interviewed or featured on SWE or have an idea for collaboration, I would love to hear it!

For any & everything else, feel free to email me or visit me on Twitter